Women: Underrated Angels of Grace and Power

The strength of a woman is a force that transcends physical limitations, a power that lies in resilience, determination, and the capacity to endure and overcome challenges both extraordinary and mundane. Women have, for centuries, proven their ability to rise above adversity, yet too often, this strength is overlooked—not only by others but by women themselves. It is vital to acknowledge and celebrate this power, to reflect on what it means to be a woman and to recognise why self-respect is one of the most important gifts we can offer ourselves.

One of the most compelling examples of female strength comes from stories of women performing seemingly impossible feats in moments of crisis. Consider the documented cases of mothers who, fuelled by the surge of adrenaline known as “hysterical strength,” have lifted cars to rescue their trapped children. This is not a fictional trope; it is a scientific reality that underscores how a woman’s instinct to protect and nurture can unlock immense physical power. It’s not merely the act of lifting the car that stands out—it is the profound determination, the refusal to let circumstances dictate outcomes, that truly defines such moments.

The internet is full of similar examples. There are stories of women pulling loved ones from the wreckage of car accidents, surviving in extreme environments for days on sheer willpower, or facing life-threatening situations with courage that defies all odds. These stories resonate because they remind us of what lies within us: a deep, untapped reservoir of strength that often reveals itself in moments when it is most needed.

But it is not only in these dramatic, headline-grabbing moments that women show their strength. In truth, the most remarkable demonstrations of female resilience happen quietly, every single day. Women balance careers with caregiving, navigate societal pressures, and manage responsibilities that are often invisible to others. The mental and emotional labour that women bear is immense; it requires a constant juggling act, a near-superhuman ability to prioritise and persevere. Yet, because this strength is so routine, it is easy to take for granted—or worse, dismiss entirely.

For centuries, women have been conditioned to believe that they are the “weaker sex.” This notion has perpetuated cycles of self-doubt and undervaluation. But biology and psychology tell a different story. Women are equipped with extraordinary endurance, whether through the physical demands of pregnancy and childbirth or the mental fortitude required to navigate a world that often demands more from them than from their male counterparts. It is this ability to endure, to rise above, and to adapt that makes the strength of a woman so unique.

And yet, despite this, women often fail to give themselves the respect they deserve. Too frequently, we downplay our achievements or compare ourselves unfavourably to others. Society’s standards—whether related to appearance, career success, or relationships—are harsh, and women are often held to impossible expectations. This can lead to feelings of inadequacy and a diminished sense of self-worth. Recognising this pattern is the first step toward breaking it; valuing ourselves, on our own terms, is an act of defiance and empowerment.

There is also an argument, often unspoken but deeply felt, that life might be easier as a man. Men are not subjected to the physical demands of menstruation, pregnancy, or menopause. They are less frequently judged for their appearance and often navigate career advancement without the burden of proving their capability at every step. However, the challenges women face—while undeniable—are also a source of profound strength. It is through these experiences that women develop empathy, resilience, and adaptability. These qualities are not just survival mechanisms; they are the building blocks of greatness.

To be a woman is to carry within oneself the power to transform pain into purpose, to find strength in vulnerability, and to achieve balance in chaos. It is not an easy path, and it is certainly not without its frustrations. Yet, it is a path that comes with its own unique rewards. Every woman has within her the capacity to inspire others—not only through extraordinary acts of heroism but through the quiet, steadfast way she meets the challenges of life head-on.

This strength deserves recognition—not only from society but, most importantly, from ourselves. Self-respect is not a luxury; it is a necessity. To respect ourselves means to honour our achievements, to celebrate our resilience, and to reject the narratives that tell us we are not enough. It is an act of rebellion, yes, but also an act of love.

Let us take pride in what it means to be a woman. Let us remind ourselves of the stories that prove our strength, whether they are tales of women lifting cars or simply the quiet, uncelebrated victories of everyday life. And let us never forget that our power lies not only in what we do but in who we are. For that alone is something to be proud of.

Ladies, please, let us be kind to one another and treat each other with respect. Each of us is fighting our own inner battles, wrestling with demons that others cannot see or even imagine. Let’s uplift and support one another, knowing that empathy and understanding are the strongest gifts we can give. Together, we can create a world where our shared strength becomes a beacon of hope and resilience for all.

A year where we bravely face challenges while treating ourselves with the kindness and respect we deserve. I wish for you to find peace in your decisions, joy in the little things, and pride in who you are. Remember, your strength lies not only in what you accomplish but in simply being yourself. Wishing you health, happiness, and unwavering confidence in your abilities for the year ahead!

-Anna Rajmon